Covenant of Healthy Relationships

The BUF Covenant of Healthy Relationships

Individually and collectively we share the responsibility and accountability for our actions.  We honor each other's worth by engagement in thoughtful and respectful dialogue that seeks to promote understanding.  In the spirit of this Covenant, we promise our mutual trust and support to one another as we strive to bring our best selves forward.

We the members, staff and ministers of the Bellingham Unitarian Fellowship, covenant to affirm our commitment to each other and our congregation as we promise to:

Warmly welcome all
Foster a safe and nurturing environment for all our members
Embrace our diversity and the opportunity to share our different perspectives
Honor and support one another in our life journeys in times or joy, need and struggle
Be quick to listen, slow to judge, and willing to negotiate
Accept responsibility for our individual acts
Honor confidences
Address our disagreements directly and openly
See conflict through to authentic resolution
Strive to keep our promises, but when we fall short, we forgive ourselves and others, and begin again in love.
Healthy Relationships Process
If you have a situation in which you aren't sure how to put this covenant into practice, click the link above. The BUF Healthy Relationships Team is here to help.